Not everyone is like the one person you met.
I have this question in my mind today. While blaming a single person, why do we refer to everyone who belong to that community. You got broken by someone and then your statements comes like “Everyone is same”. No, everyone is not same. You just faced a wrong person and you got hit by him but not everybody. Its really kind of illiterate comment. A guy cheated on you, “All boys are same”. A girl ditched you “All girls are same”. Stop referring to all because of one. You don’t know everyone because you just been with one person. You don’t have right to say negative about anyone who you don’t know.
Often, we confuse ourselves with this kind of immaturity after being hurt. Baring ourselves from doing mistakes again by feeding such statements to our mind. One wrong chapter can’t restrict you from living your life. Mistakes are good, they give you experience to live. But stopping to trust everybody because of that one person is stupidity.
People really need to understand things.
What inspired me to write this blog post is since past some days I was watching girls writing big feminist posts on fb and girls messaging me on social media with similar questions like why all boys are same, all boys just need SEX, boys just know how to hurt and I was like stop it now. Don’t act like a stupid bitch. You are mature and act like one. You can’t just say all and include everyone in the reason for your pain. Same goes with the boys. This is not just one sided thing. I also read many posts written by boys who mock girls with these kind of statements. This is not just limited to this as there are other things which also need to be covered under it.
People just need to understand what they say and how they say it.
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