Friends?? More than Friends?? Friends with Benefits??
This is one of the biggest question of the millennium whether a guy and a girl can just be friends? Can they just be friends without kicking their love hormones? Can they keep it without indulging in sex? Or if there is possbility that they can be friends with benefits? No one actually know this. For being in a sexual relationship you have to be in love and for being in love you have to be friends. Well, this is how most quotes and phrases dictate. But can one restrict himself to just friendship?
Ofcourse friends are the best thing anyone can get in this world. And having a best friend is beyond expressible feeling with whom you can talk about anything. And anything means literally anything. It can be your deepest darkest secrets, your wild fantasies, your crush name and many more tiny big things. And this feeling is escalated if your best friend is of opposite sex. But does this narrow down the list of things you can share with him or her. And what is the surety that no romantic feeling will develop for them over time?
If you spend most of your time together then it is definite that new feelings will kick in. Even if you don’t want them to. It is different if you force yourself in not believing all this bullshit, but friend, this is what i am talking about.
Today in the world of making self image and gaining social reputation, it is difficult for people to hold on to any burden of emotional commitments. So relationships play a side role and easy temporary pleasures play its part. After all there are no emotional strings attached to it and its fun as long as its between the two. And you can easily move on with someone without having an issue with other. Thats why this fair deal is found beneficial by many.
But there exist some jerks in this narcissistic world who can’t just accept this truth of denial. I mean, you were friends, this happened, now move on. Or, have courage to tell them what you feel inside before they approach on someone else to find their part of love. Spreading rumours and questioning on one’s character as a revenge is not a good thing to smoke. This is not at all accepted.
Have the decency to keep it to yourself and maybe you can give it another shot sometime again. That’s a good advice to take that can raise your respect.
So, in the end, the question still remains. Can a guy and a girl can just be friends?? Comment your views in comment section below.
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